So, it's been awhile since I have posted. Not for lack of intention, just lack of writing material. I mean, I am not some movie star who has women knocking down his door all the time, you know?? LOL It is hard enough to find a decent girl to have a sexual relationship with, let alone a Dom/Sub relationship!
However, I did meet someone in my area on a local message board. She is married, albeit unhappily married. She is married to some depressed, lazy, unexciting guy. She practically has to beg him to have sex with her and even when he does, he does his two pumps in and out, has his orgasm and goes to sleep. At first, it was just chatting about the local area, relationships, etc. As the conversation turned more explicit, she made it clear she could never meet in person. Although she was not happily married and sexually unsatisfied, they had a daughter she had to consider. Of course, I didn't mind at all - I respected her decision. I would never ask anyone to put themselves or their family in any bad situations.
Anyway...after a couple of weeks, it turned to phone calls. Of course, this led to phone sex.
She was NOT kidding when she said she was sexually frustrated. I've never had a woman who was so....passionate and energetic via phone sex. She would cum 5 or 6 times and still want more...more...more. It got to the point where I began to realize why her husband was such a lump...she must have worn him out over the years! LOL
To get to the point here, she began to get VERY dominating. Demanding that I cum NOW, telling me how naughty I was, how she needed to paddle my ass. Calling me her "bitch" and her "personal man whore", etc. She could tell, just by my voice inflection that it totally turned me on and she LOVED it. Demanded I call her Mistress Liss. Demanded I call her at a certain time every morning. She was insatiable...she would make me cum on the phone at least three times a days or I would be punished.
Of course, eventually, her hubby started getting noisy about the phone bill, her attitude, etc. So we decided it wasn't worth her being put into a position she did want to be in, so we broke contact.
So...I was fighting being submissive when having a girl in person (see the last post) but I was willing to submit totally on the phone and online. Was she a stronger women that was able to make me submit? Or was it easier to submit on the phone versus in person??
More thoughts, more questions. Less answers.
you've been rather busy!
I think it was great for what it was. An interaction between two people that you both will take something away from it.